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Friday, September 25, 2009
INTOXICATED-WITH THE TRANSITORY
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Monday, September 21, 2009
Spiritual Abuse - The Unquestioned Authority
Just in case some of you dismissed my article, "Six signs and symptoms of a controlling ministry and spiritual abuse," for whatever reason. The following article was written by one of my blog followers, 'RemnantGirl", who has a blog dedicated to Spiritual Abuse Survivors as well as domestic violence. Sisters of the gospel, I beseech you to read this article and check out her blog.In an unhealthy church, it is considered rebellion when someone questions decisions that are made or statements that are said from the pulpit. Granted, there are those who constantly question the leadership in any church -- but often such constant questioning comes from an individuals critical attitude.
A man from one church told me, "We were told that it is more important to obey leaders than to question what they are doing." He went on to say, "It was unthinkable to question the motives of the pastor."
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Saturday, September 19, 2009
Six signs and symptoms of a controlling ministry and spiritual abuse
In chapter 4 of my book, I deal with an issue that some believers tend to sweep under the rug, turn a blind eye to, or are just too afraid to do anything about it. At the same time, we all at some point in our walk with Christ have seen and (many) have experienced this issue first hand.
Here are six signs and symptoms of a controlling ministry and spiritual abuse:
1. They say things like, “I am standing in God’s stead.”
2. Members are taught that they cannot trust their own judgment or ability to receive direction from the Lord for the important decisions of their lives, but instead must rely upon the so-called wisdom of their "personal pastors."
3. Any semblance of anything other than total and unquestioning obedience to the desires of the church's leadership is considered rebellion and insubordination and is simply not tolerated.
4. Members live under the constant threat of being branded as a “rebel", openly denounced and shamed from the “bully” pulpit and consequently shunned by members of the church.
5. An oppressive performance-based approval and promotion system keeps members in constant internal turmoil and fear as they jump through all the hoops the spiritual taskmasters put before them in an attempt to seek their leaders' approval and favor.
6. Members are indoctrinated and compelled to accept the leaderships set agenda of the group and given no real say.
Get more signs and symptoms of a controlling ministry and spiritual abuse in my new book, Clever Lies and Assumptions from the Pulpit to the Pews.
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Saturday, September 12, 2009
Has Your Church Become an 8 Hour Job?
What has been the excepted norm of the contemporary or modern Church structure and operation, is changing. Across the country and in various denominations, we are seeing an evolutions taking place among young Churches and their leaders. These Churches are changing the way people see and view the Church. From its over indulgence, greed and the out of control appetite to "out do the other", attitudes, young Churches and their leaders are adopting a more simpler operation as seen in the early church. A structure and operation where the congregants won't feel that being apart of a Church body is like having an extra eight hour job.In November 2008, I was invited to attend a Pastoral focus group. The group consisted of Pastors from a variety of denominations, positions, and backgrounds. They ranged from no degrees to PhD's. We discussed a lot of things, but one thing in particular was the most pressing comment and complaint and that is, the overwhelming amount of man made protocols and doctrines that are not Biblical. Legalism in the modern church has pushed people from all walks of life from the Church.
A recent, Barna Group survey’s findings show that people no longer look to denominations or churches for a complete set of theological views. Rather, combining beliefs from different denominations, and even religions, is becoming the norm. Another finding in the survey is that Christianity is no longer viewed as the default religion in America. More than 50 percent of the adult respondents say that Christianity is no longer the faith that Americans automatically accept as their personal faith. Residents in the Northeast and West were also more likely than those living in the South and Mideast to say that Christianity has lost its place as the first faith option people consider.
When doing research for my new book, "Clever Lies and Assumptions from the Pulpit to the Pews," I asked men and women from 18 to 45, years of age, what is it that they dislike most about the Church. The overwhelming answer was Church leadership. They felt that the leadership have lost touch with the people.
At the focus group session, I was the youngest, with the least amount of pastoral experience. I was asked to share my thoughts. This is what I told them. "As a Pastor, one of the things I have set out to do is to return to the simplicity and pure doctrines of the New Testament Church as described in scriptures ." In other words, "KEEP IT SIMPLE." Our church functions like a church, not a business. We seek to be the Church, not just have Church. A church where the congregants won't feel that being apart of our church body is like having an extra eight hour job.
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Thursday, September 3, 2009
How Valuable Are You?
Here is something to think about.Here are the two questions Jesus posed:
Question 1: “If a man has a hundred sheep and one of them gets lost, what will he do? Won’t he leave the ninety-nine others in the wilderness and go to search for the one that is lost until he finds it?”
There are two key examples that Jesus uses that represent you and me. The sheep, and the coin. He uses these two examples because in those days, a sheep, and a coin, where the two most valuable items (outside of water). His point to all standing around Him as He taught was this: People are just as valuable to Jesus as sheep and a coin were to the Pharisess. In other words Jesus considers people valuable. How much more should we?
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Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Five reasons why Melchizedek does not provide a legitimate pre-law foundation for tithing
Based on a previous blog post, two individuals mentioned the relationship between Melchizedek and Abraham as proof that Christians under Grace should continue to tithe. Not so.Fourth, Abraham chose, or purpose in his heart to give a tenth to Malchizedek. The same type of giving that Paul talked about in 2 Corinth. 8 and 9.
Five, During that time in history, it was customary to give a tenth of your war spoils to those who assisted you in winning the war. This was Malchizedeks role and relationship to Abraham.
Melchizedek does not provide a legitimate pre-law foundation which can be used as an example of tithing for the New Covenant Christian. This conclusion is also held by many Christian denominations, it is noteworthy that this is also the original position of the Scofield Reference Bible, leading schools such as Dallas Theological Seminary, Moody Bible Institute, Wheaton College, and highly respected authors such as Craig Blomberg, Lewis Sperry Chafer, Walter Elwell, Theodore Epp, John MacArthur, Charles Ryrie, Charles Swindol, Merrill Unger and John Walvoord. These evangelical scholars contend that the historical Melchizedek was never used to validate tithing in the Mosaic Law under the Old Covenant and cannot be used to validate tithing in the New Testament after Calvary. It will be shown that there is no eternal principle found in Genesis 14 which can be brought forward beyond Calvary to the church today. Ample evidence of this position exists in the writings of the previously mentioned authors which are used as textbook authorities in many colleges and seminaries today.
Historical Note:
Abraham did not choose to tithe to Melchizedek because he was priest of the true Most High God. Instead, Abraham was obligated by long-standing Arab war custom to return a tithe of the spoils of war. Since there is no correlation between this tithing and that found in the Mosaic Law, the Mosaic Law never quotes Genesis 14 or even alludes to it in support of tithing. This is strange, indeed, since most modern tithe-advocates ignore the law as a foundation, go first to Melchizedek, and then turn back to Leviticus 27 and Malachi 3 to find money instead of food. They also preach tithing and Melchizedek from Genesis 14 instead of the more dangerous Melchizedek text of Hebrews 7.
The king of Sodom followed the old tradition when he asked for return of the persons taken from him. Evidently, Canaanite custom permitted Abraham to keep the goods and only return the persons. Therefore, as soon as Abraham offered a tenth of the spoils to Melchizedek, the king of Sodom insisted that Abraham keep the balance of the goods, the ninety percent, for himself (vv. 20-21). Verse 21 simply must be included in any discussion of verse 20. (Should the Church Teach Tithing? A Theologian's Conclusions about a Taboo Doctrine Russell Earl Kelly, PHD)
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“What are some things you do in your church to encourage giving as opposed to tithing on a regular basis?”
In response to our previous blog post, someone asked me the following question, “What are some things you do in your church to encourage giving as opposed to tithing on a regular basis?”This is a great question and I am all too happy to give an answer.
Some of the things that we do to encourage giving are:
1.Teach the purpose and importance of giving. Too many times church leaders like to mix the Law and Grace when it comes to this subject, as if it all means the same thing. Not so! To do this is to curse yourself, your ministry, and God’s people. (See Galatians 3)
In chapter ten of my book I talk about this very question. This chapter is intended to teach Christians, leaders, and lay persons how we are to give under grace. It is also intended to take the pressure off of God's people to give what they don't have. Rather a person tithes or not, you can not make them give what they do not want to give nor what they do not have. Unfortunately for to0 long, many church leaders have used fear, condemnation, and oppression to force God’s people to give. Now, because people have been mistreated this way, many or reluctant to give, especially men.
Giving is important and necessary to do the will of God. Never once in my book do I state that the people of God should not give. What I do say, and what I have said, is that Christians are not under the Law (See Book Excerpts) Therefore, the Old Testament system of tithing was brought to an end at the death and resurrection of Christ. That's why the apostles never mentions anything about tithing to the new testimaent Church.
For years Church leaders have spent and spend a lot of time teaching tithing, and their beliefs or conviction concerning tithing. Why, because on average, people do not like to let go of their money. With this in mind, how much more should we also teach what the Bible says about giving, for those of us who choose to live under the new covenant of Grace?
2. Trusting the bank and the future giving of church members is not faith! The key is to keep your church out of debt. Unlike most churches, our church does not live or operate above its means. We know what we are able to handle as well as what we can’t handle.
In chapter three of my book, we deal with the financial debt of the Church. I ask the question, “Why is the Church in Financial Debt?” The answer is simple because we seek after the things of the world. The Church says, “Seek God,” but teaches seek MONEY. Church leaders say by their actions, “Look how the Lord blessed me,” after they have squandered away the people’s generous giving of money. The modern day Church is not the best example of good financial stewardship.
In an article by Pastor Clark Whitten, “The High Cost of Debt in Ministry,” Pastor Clark Whitten based on experience, warns that, “Debt can devour--even kill--an otherwise effective ministry.” In my experience, churches that teach tithing tend to have more debt then churches that do not teach tithing. I have also noticed that the more money churches take in the more they tend to spend and the debt that before seemed manageable has suddenly become a threat to the very existence of the church. Churches pay the price for mistaking wants for needs. What the Church does not seem to understand, nor do they teach is that God promises to provide for our needs--not for our wants.
3. We also encourage debt free living in our personal lives. If your Church is in financial debt so are its members. Many Christians are in an atmosphere where they are taught and pressured into believing that, “It’s yours, go get it.” Or “God does not want you to live below your means.” Those of you, who have known me for some time, know what I say and believe, and that is, if your foundation is flawed, your works will be also.
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